By Nabil Habiby
This post that was first published by IMES in November 2018
It has been a rough week for Palestinians. They witnessed yet more Arab concessions to Israel. Their land continues to shrink. Their hopes of ever achieving freedom from oppression grow slimmer.
It has been a rough 70 years for Palestinians. A few settlers turned into a country. A supposedly World War related conflict has stretched out into an indefinite struggle for survival on the periphery.
I am Lebanese-Palestinian. I was blessed to be born as Lebanese. My family took Lebanese nationality in the 1950s. I have lived through post-civil war Lebanon. In almost every way I am a Lebanese person.
But, I never had an answer to the questions of almost every school teacher, shopkeeper, and parents of friends:
Where are you from?
I would stutter. Evade the answer. I knew back then that the Lebanese were not particularly keen on the Palestinians. Where was I from? I did not have a village in the mountains. My grandparents did not own a house in Beirut. Where was I from?
I remember my high school physics teacher telling me when he saw me search for an answer to the origins question:
Never be ashamed of your origins!
Since then, I have answered with confidence:
I am Lebanese – but originally, I come from Palestine!
What does that mean? What does it mean to be “originally from Palestine?” I have never lived there. I have never set foot there. Even worse yet, what does it mean to be from Palestine when “Palestine” is not recognized to exist at many international levels – or even on Google maps? What does it mean to live a good life (college education, freedom of religion, good job, wife and kids…etc.) but say, proudly, I am originally from Palestine? I do not struggle like the rest of the Palestinian people. My only conflict involves in a few social media posts.
And Israel. The beloved child of the Evangelical church in many parts of the Western world. Israel. What do I do with it? Do I hate it? But Jesus asks us to love our enemies. Do I forget the past, the past I was not part of, yet which fills my innermost being? How can one forget his identity?
In March of 2015, I found myself standing on the bank of the Jordan river, on the Jordanian side (I would not have been able to write this blog if I had been on the other side). I was surrounded by a group of colleagues, not friends. A pastor was preaching. Sadly, he missed the meaning-heavy setting, and chose to speak about God’s care for us. I found my mind wandering. There, a few meters across, is the land of my grandparents. There, a few meters across, is the land of my dreams, the place of identity – a home. There, a few meters across, is the answer to the question:
Where are you from?
I remember walking to the river. I knelt down and touched the waters. It was cold. Regular water. Across the river an Israeli flag fluttered. People were walking around, taking pictures. What did I want in that moment? I wanted to place the Palestinian flag in the place of the Israeli one! I wanted to shout across the waters: Injustice! I wanted to be a Chinese tourist with no emotional link to this place. I wanted, more than anything, to jump across the river. Where to? There. The place of yearning.
What should be the place of yearning for us as Christians in this world? Home? Our place of birth? The Church? Heaven? Jesus?
I sat myself down after that in the silence of my room. I did not come to an intense realization. I did not find the answers. I still haven’t. I wrote down a few words. I was trying to explain, narrate, describe my experience. As I wrote, I found my mind providing the answers. My theology came through and rescued me from the waters stirring within me.
What you will read below are my thoughts. I do not dare call it a poem, for I am no poet. Let us call them reflections. On one level, I have reached the conclusion of these reflections. On other levels, I am still standing on the edge of the river. The river!
Enough then, with my ramblings. I leave you with this humble piece. I pray it washes over you with peace, as it has for me, many times since then.
Standing on the Edge of a River
Standing on the edge of a river
Muddy and shallow,
Stretching out my eyesight
A few meters across,
Over the centuries of history,
Into a green land,
Knowing that there lies
Knowing that with one jump
I could land in my land,
But the river is a wall,
And I do not exist on this side
And become someone on the other,
But the river is deep!
The echoes of old stories come,
As an army of soldiers marching softly,
An army with no weapons…this time,
And I jump, as if over the river into my land
But land in the story,
And I stay in the water for three days
Till I come out dripping with existence,
And find me a home in the river.
When Nabil is not lecturing in New Testament Studies at ABTS he is busy engaging in political advocacy, serving the youth at his church, and hanging out with his super cute toddler and baby and charming wife.